ugh why am i so stupid?

[blink_guy]

k well hers the deal

when it comes to a girl that i only think of friends i do really really well

but when its someone that i like and im juse beggining to know, i get really nervous an stuff and our covnersations and stuff only goes to liek jsut casual an lasts only like 3 minutes

well im going to ask this girl out but i dotn wana just ask her out of the blues so i want to be talking to her really deeply for a bit then ask her but i want to know how i can get htat time where its just the two of us during class and stuff

thanks

[ultraviolet]

If you're stupid, well we all are. You strategy sounds good except for one thing, it's hard to have quality flirt time in class...especially with everyone and the teacher around listening in. How about lunch? in between classes? after school?

[blink_guy]

how shud i try and talk to her between those times though?it wud be weird to jus go up to her an talk to her

[Seko]

Perhaps it would be weird, but that's one sure way to get the message accross that you're interested in getting to know her. It only seems weird for you because you like her. I would try to talk to her in class once or twice - even stupid things, about the class, or about the assignment. That way she can get used to the idea that you are at least on communication basis. After that, a hi here and there in the hallways, and then it's not weird at all to come up and talk to her.

[MusicIsEverything90]

Why not try to get together with her to work on a project for school? If she has some classes with you then ask her if she wants to do a project from a class with you, or if you need help with your homework, go to her. Then she'll know you feel comfortable enough to talk with her, and you'll get closer.

[NewPhillyGuy]

Try not to think too much about it. One thing I have learned with girls is that if you get too chummy with them, they will get the wrong idea and think you only want to be friends. If she likes you, it will completely throw her off. I think that girls are just much better than guys at flirting. You need to pick it up. Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel. If she rejects you, there are plenty more in this world, bro.

[2pac4live]

Just ask her to hang out after school one day or on the w/e...Its a common thing to do and it doesnt mean ur asking her out...then use ur stretegy...