? 4 the dumpers: are you still physically attracted to your exes?

[deejay74]

how many of you who dumped your ex are still physically attracted to your ex even though you may not be in love with them anymore.

 

if you're friends with said ex, does being physically attracted to them complicate things?

 

me personally, i really only have 1 real ex (well now 2 i guess). the first ex i am friends with but no longer attracted to because she's changed a lot in her physical appearance.

 

my most recent ex? i think i will always be attracted to her.

 

just curious what others' experiences have been.

 

[EDIT] sorry, i didn't mean to post this here in "healing after break up..." [EDIT]

[in_the_mirror]

yea i was still physically attracted to my ex for a little bit, but it went away with time....i started realizing what he was really like and it started to make him unattractive to me physically....its weird how the brain can work sometimes.

[Cyberchick]

Well, for the majority of my exes I don't think I was ever really attracted to them in the first place... But with my ex in Ireland, even though he was a jerk in a lot of ways, I'd say as of right now I'm still attracted to him. I don't know if I would be if I saw him again.

[ultraviolet]

I recently saw an Ex that I hadn't seen in years and the physical attraction was just as strong as ever. It wasn't the physical attraction that complicated things, but the pain of knowing what might have been.

[vesper]

my ex and I decided to see each other after six years...physical attraction still very much there....emotionally we were completely light years apart....this time around...

[Süsser Tod]

I would not say no to sex with my ex, but I'd kick her out of bed as soon as I'm done. Yes, I like her physically, but can't stand her.

[Rebel]

I know my ex and I are still attracted to eachother. Yes, it makes it difficult, at least for us.

[valenski]

I guess I could say that there is still some physical attraction for my ex but when I think of dealing with her selfrighteous attitude, it not only turns me off but ticks me off too. I'll always be on the defensive around her, guess that means no sex with that ex.

[selfi]

we are both still openly physically attracted to eachother o_o