Ms Omaniac Posted March 1, 2006 Share Posted March 1, 2006 well he isnt taking my calls. or emailing me. or texting me. i guess we are really over. i was totally blindsided...i didnt see this coming. i was preparing to move with this summer. we talked everyday....i swore eternal love to him. he was my best friend. and now...pooof...nothing. i dont know how i could have missed this. i was being pathetic...calling like 5 times and leaving long voice mail messages....he didnt return a single one. i just cant believe he's gone. i hope if i leave him alone with time and space...he will come back. i feel so lost....this is my last card to play though...and its not a fun one. Link to comment
Gone Away Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 hi sorry to hear about your bf. I'm kind of going through the same thing and it's really hard. Don't know what to tell you. Hope things get better Link to comment
healinginnyc81 Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 hey ivy, I'm so sorry. It's really tough when you don't expect it. You must be in shock and feeling like all your dreams have been shattered. Please keep posting and venting on here. We're here to support you. You're right that the best thing to do is give him his time and space. I hope things work out for you. I'm really sorry that you're dealing with this again. My heart goes out to you. Don't blame yourself though or think that you're pathetic. It's not pathetic to be in love or to be devastated when that love is taken away, you're just as normal and human as all of us. Link to comment
Diggitydave Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Post as much as you want to to get a lot of it out. I posted 170 plus times in like 5 days. Yeah, it hurt. Link to comment
NJRon Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Well, you have been on here long enough to know what I am going to say. Save your last card for yourself. Link to comment
Diggitydave Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Lots of jersey folk on here dealin with heartache. This state sucks Link to comment
friscodj Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Well, I think your best course of action is to hurt this one out and prepare for the next one. Situations of being "shocked" and "blindsided" like this can leave you very gun-shy for future relationships if you don't fully let the experience go... So don't hide from the pain, face it, hurt deeply, and then start anew with someone else down the road...because there will surely be someone else for you to love like this who won't run away like he did, void of the decency to talk to you about it... Link to comment
vesper Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 So don't hide from the pain, face it, hurt deeply, and then start anew with someone else down the road...because there will surely be someone else for you to love like this who won't run away like he did, void of the decency to talk to you about it... well said frisco! msomaniac..sorry to hear about your breakup..I read your story a few days ago and about how the tension was building up.. hang in there!! Link to comment
GH_Jaded Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Well, you have been on here long enough to know what I am going to say. Save your last card for yourself. That's good.....save your last card for yourself.....I need to remember that one. I'm gonna TRY to leave the (sinking) relationship I'm in with some dignity and save the last card for ME. Link to comment
friscodj Posted March 2, 2006 Share Posted March 2, 2006 Save your last card for yourself. That is a good one...you da man! Link to comment
Ms Omaniac Posted March 3, 2006 Author Share Posted March 3, 2006 im trying. im going out tomorrow with my best friend and his wife. im trying. i wish he would just call....i dont understand Link to comment
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