SpyderE Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 My current gf is the first gf I have had with how can I say "different" tastes in bed, she likes to have her hair pulled hard, back scratched to the point it is almost bleeding etc. while I am up for most anything I don't want to hurt her, I figure she'd tell me if I did, but damn... Do many girls like this kind of thing, none of my other exes asked for this type of thing, not to this extreem at least. light biting scratching is one thing. Link to comment
ehm doubleyou Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 Lucky guy.... I am currently in the pre dating stages with this girl who is totally into what you said and it has got me very excited....i think it just adds to the excitment in bed....you dont have to do it all the time but its nice to know that the women one is dating can get into primal sex Link to comment
NJRon Posted February 1, 2006 Share Posted February 1, 2006 I dated a girl like that. I got burned out on it. It became an awful lot of work to try and be so hard on her without actually hurting her. Frankly, after a while, I started to detect that she had some serious emotional issues and I took that cue to exit stage right. While a bit of spice is nice... every single time is tough. Link to comment
1babylove Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 While a bit of spice is nice... I have to agree. A little spice is nice from each other. I have had past lovers that were into different things. Its great to have fun but also having moments of slow passionate intimacy helps keep the relationship alive. Link to comment
Confessoress Posted February 2, 2006 Share Posted February 2, 2006 Sometimes I like it rough, so does the BF. But other times slow and gentle. I'm fairly flexible (pun) like that and so is he. Link to comment
Cloud802 Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 I'm not one to pick because I'm still technically a virgin, but I have to say I like it in general pretty much. Rough is hot, and gets you nice and burned with passion, but slow is a lot more romantic and sweet. I feel like a dweeb, I'm still a virgin but I'm sharing all this. Shut up Cloud! Shut up!@@ Link to comment
LotusFlower Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 I prefer fast quickies...or long slow love making...sure a little aggression is good sometimes...but borderline abusive...can get messy... Link to comment
Rawk-1 Posted February 3, 2006 Share Posted February 3, 2006 Depending on our surrounding and what she is in the mood for, i like a challenge. 15mins or 2hr, makes no difference to me. Just hold on tight and keep all hands inside safety zones until this roller coaster comes to a complete stop. Its going to be a bumpy ride! Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 6, 2006 Share Posted February 6, 2006 Cloud - Don't be embarrassed. You'd be surprised at how much a virgin knows. Some of us virgins understand what to do more then the "experienced" guys. Just born naturals. Personally, I think that gentle and romantic is infinitely better then rough. Rough is difficult because of the possibilty of hurting her. And I don't think thats something anyone wants to do. Also, someone who likes it too rough, may just have issues deep down that they need to work out. But like cloud said, in generally, it feels pretty good. Link to comment
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