FamousAmos Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 so today this girl that i've liked and talked to for a while at school, on AIM i asked her to be one of my valentines for valentinesday and she said "uhhhh ill get back to you" what is that suppose to mean, isnt there nicer ways to say no? anyways after she said that, the convo went dead, i think i screwed myself with the only chances i had with her Link to comment
smilelikeyoumeanit Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Um, I think this was her nice way of saying no. Either that or she was so shocked that you liked her she didn't know what to say. As hard as it is, you have to wait until she gets back to you. But don't push it. If she doens't like you and is tryign to let you off nicley, then you don't want to push her to make a scene about it. Whatever the outcome, just remember that there are fun times ahead, either with this girl, or with another, who will think it's the sweetest thing in the world for you to ask her to be your valentine. Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 24, 2006 Author Share Posted January 24, 2006 boy o boy, im so stupid now i bet she feels awkward to talk to me Link to comment
Ghostrider4042005 Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 dude dude dude breathe easy man life's too short to make a big fuss out of it n if she doesn't like you forget about her you don't need her it's not like there isn't other girls out there at your school heck even at other schools around yours n maybe she said i'll get back to you like she's giddy like smile said just give her time your takin this way to fast man Link to comment
Tigris Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 I think she got a shock and didn't know what to say. Give her a chance, be patient. Link to comment
Relationship Coach Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 so today this girl that i've liked and talked to for a while at school, on AIM i asked her to be one of my valentines for valentinesday She probably doesn't want to be one of your Valentine's, she wants to be "The One". Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 24, 2006 Author Share Posted January 24, 2006 lol i havent even thought of that... thats thinking out of the box lol but yeah thats a possibiliaty but shes 13 im 14 Link to comment
ducky Posted January 24, 2006 Share Posted January 24, 2006 Give her time Amos. If she's interested, she'll get back to you! Keep us posted, we'll all be here to offer you advice as this develops! Link to comment
FamousAmos Posted January 24, 2006 Author Share Posted January 24, 2006 lol so yea, today i went up to her and said hello, and she said hello back, but no eye contact from her Link to comment
BlueWolf Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 It may not be that she doesn't like you. She could just be a shy person, and may be unsure of what to do. Think positive. Link to comment
Markers Posted January 25, 2006 Share Posted January 25, 2006 at your age it could be either way..... I'd take it as no though, 'cos I'd expect eye contact at least. Link to comment
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