SecretIloveher Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 Ok so i was talking to my girlfriend on the phone and i really love her and we both know it. I proposed one day and she said yes but her mother wont let us so basically we are Romeo and Juliet.. so she calls me today and tells me she went to the movies with some friends and saw a ex-boyfriend and they hugged and he kissed her.. what do i do? Kick his * * *? Break up? She told me she loves me and it ment nothing... signed -Desperate4Help Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 He kissed her, in what way? Passionately or as friends? Link to comment
SecretIloveher Posted December 30, 2005 Author Share Posted December 30, 2005 He kissed her on the lips.. Link to comment
vandgsmom Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 Can I ask a question?? How old are you that her mother is dictating whether or not she can get married? If you are both or she is underage, then this makes more sense... Link to comment
SecretIloveher Posted December 30, 2005 Author Share Posted December 30, 2005 We are 18 years old Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 Did she tell you what happened? Link to comment
SecretIloveher Posted December 30, 2005 Author Share Posted December 30, 2005 She said she was with some friends saw her ex said hey and then he was talking to her when her friends went away and he moved in for the kiss and i dont know if she pulled away all i know is i am so pissed. Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 It's obviously very normal to be angry at this stage. What do you want to do? Either you forgive her, and work on your trust issues. Or realise that you cannot trust her again and end the relationship. Either way is going to be hard. Link to comment
SecretIloveher Posted December 30, 2005 Author Share Posted December 30, 2005 I love her to death and want to be with her and build this trust we have together... i want to keep this.. but i dont know though.. i mean.. she promised she wouldnt cheat.. i wouldnt know if this is cheating but.. Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 That is a personal definition. It is breaking trust, however. How does she feel about this? Did she come to you out of guilt? Link to comment
AlwaysNeedHelp Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 so she calls me today and tells me she went to the movies with some friends and saw a ex-boyfriend and they hugged and he kissed her.. Ask her why did she kiss him.. A normal kiss that he is just being nice ? what do i do? Kick his * * *? Break up? She told me she loves me and it ment nothing... She told you it meant nothing.. I suggest trying to make things work.. Link to comment
darkblue Posted December 30, 2005 Share Posted December 30, 2005 Maybe it did mean nothing - but she still did it, thus making her unreliable. What's to say she won't sleep with someone, but hey, it won't mean anything... You should know whether or not you can trust this woman again. Link to comment
SecretIloveher Posted December 30, 2005 Author Share Posted December 30, 2005 Guys thanks for the awesome advice. She came to my house last night saying her ex was trying to take her to a party while she was sleeping. She said she doesnt feel comfortable with him anymore. Link to comment
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