Last Night...

[xblondyx]

Hi all. Just wondering if anyone could answer this.

 

Last night, my boyfriend came over to my house. Things got a big hot and heavy. He ended up fingering me (going hard at it..lol). Anyway, after about...10 minutes he stopped. Then all of a sudden he said "oh no your bleeding". This has never happened to me before, kind of embarrassing! Anyone got any ideas why?

[Day_Walker]

This can happen happen when thte fingering is too hard or it can be because of his nails. He just needs to learn what is the appropriate level of care he needs to take in order to keep you from bleeding.

[RayKay]

He needs to be more careful if this is happening, he may have scratched you with his nails, or bruised your cervix. You should be fine, but if you are still bleeding and hurting in a couple days, go see your doctor. You increase the risks of infection and scarring with this.

 

Was it hurting you at all? If it was, you CAN say no, or ask him to be more careful, you know.

[Meow18]

Was this the first time? He could have broken your hymen, which could cause bleeding.

 

It is also possible that he could have scratched you or something. Next time he might want to take it a little more gently.

[Neglected, Verbally Emot]

I have found that using first aid cots (look like finger condoms) with a small amount of lubricant provides protection for the woman and actually improves stimulation. You get the cots in the band aid section at the grocery store.

 

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