Does This Mean Anything?

[CCC]

My name is Chris. This girl and I are friends. We've been trying to hang with each other for a couple weeks now but haven't been able to because of our schedules. We were going to go hang out, maybe see a movie today, but I got a call from her today and she couldn't hang out. She just got a new job and had some training come up. So, we made plans for a movie next weekend, which is cool. She also told me, "you know, you can come over to my apartment anytime." We're both single, just was surprised that she said that and wondered if she meant more by it. Should I ask her what she meant?

Now, I am kind of physically attracted to her, so I just wondered if that statement meant anything...What do you think?...Girls and guys, share your thoughts. Girls, if you said that to a guy, what would it mean?

[RescueDiver]

It means call her up, find out when she's not doing anything and bring a movie to watch. Go hang out and chat... maybe you'll end up staying up the whole night and talking... which I guarantee you is a lot more rewarding than sex.

[Tigris]

She's telling you that she has an apartment of her own and you are welcome to go over anytime. Phone her and make arrangements to go and see her.

 

Good luck.

[Dre_7]

This is definitely a good sign, if she wasn't interested, she wouldn't have made alternate plans. And the fact that she invited you over is even better. If you like her, all you have to do is follow up on her invitation and go from there.

[unicornq]

I'm a girl living alone too. I wouldn't say something like that to any guy I'm not interested in. So, I think she's interested in you. Go for it~

[Dating Coach]

I don't think there is enough information from your first post to make any of those conclusions. If you don't mind, could you tell us a little more about the two of you?

[atraceofblood]

I think she's interested, but I'd stay away from pouring out any feelings or trying to act like I'm already her b/f or something. I think it's alright asking her what she meant, but then it could lead to you telling her about your feelings, so I'd probably stay from that.

 

I think she just wants to hang out with you and talk with you. I think rescuediver has a nice view of what can happen. If this ever happened/happens to me, I'd definitely go over and chat around with her, watch a movie, eat dinner, etc.