Well the Ex Broke NC

[Ant5157]

Hey guys as you know i have been doing nc with the ex for about 3 weeks and today he broke the NC and he told me through email that he has come by the house to see me and to say hello .. well I didnt really believe him becouse if he was going to come by the house to see me he would have at least called me, so he ask me if i was doing good and I said yeah and I was short and simple and I didnt ask him any questions at all and he said that he just wanted to wish me Happy Thanksgiving. well I didnt respond becouse i felt like if I gave in I would have winded up having to start all over on the NC and I have gone good with it so far. So I wounder what is his motive to want to say something after 3 weeks of me NC with him and to lie about him coming to see me when I know he didnt I dont know if he did or not becouse I have a second job and its nights but he doesnt no about it though.. it was so many questions I wanted to ask him but I just didnt want to be hurt about it . I will continue to do NO Contact with him though. let me know what your thought s are about this please ..

[ZoeMatthews]

I am so freaking proud of you.

 

If he calls, keep it short and to the point....

 

You did well...he either misses you wants to mess with you...don't let him derail you. Please continue with NC until you feel well enough to deal with him again on a one on one basis..if you want to..

 

(((hugs))))

 

ZM

[BONO]

ZM

Your previous thred. How long does it take. ANT5157 is another example of the 3 week thing (perhaps)

[ZoeMatthews]

Got it!!

 

I am not holding my breath though...this is the 2nd time in my life that someone has hurt me this badly!

 

But I get your point!

 

ZM

[bsp_kjm]

great job, keep strong Ant

 

off topic for a moment: hey Zoe, I was just in Lakewood visiting some friends last week! I'm thinking of moving to the area! Would u recommend it?

[Trax]

It was inevitable Ant. You handled the situation well. Keep up NC and you'll be fine. Seems to be a theme around here. The ex's are trying to creep back in...kinda spooky its happening all at the same time huh?