puppy13 Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 well here is my story we met about 4 months ago and we hit it off great . had a beautiful summer together but for the last month and a half i backed off .i wasnt sure if she was the one .she is going through a messy divorce after 18 years of mariage . i was feeling guilty thinking it was somehow my fault . i felt out of place around her family and friends . even though they have been separated for a year but s**t hit the fan when he found out about us and this made me even more uneasy . so i think she sensed that i was not interested anymore (i would not go anywhere with her anymore and was distant) and broke off with me . now after one week she is seeing someone else . here is where it gets confusing . i now realize that i was not at fault in what happened between her and her husband . i now miss her terribly we slept together the day after we broke up , and she calls me every day and we communicate 100 times better than we ever did . she tells me how she misses me on the phone and in person . she stop by my place when she can and you can see the sparkle in her eye . she tells me how good i look and how great our intimate times were . but there is someone else. man am i confused , any advice . i realise that it was my fault for us splitting up due to my being distant and not acting like i was interested . this was also my first relationship since being hurt after a 7 year relationship ended a year ago . man is life confusing do i give up or keep hope/ Link to comment
Regretfulman Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 Hey man, I'm in the same boat, I never committed to my ex, we dated but I never became her boyfriend, she always asked me to be, i always blew her off. She told me she loved me, and I didn't say anything back. She dumped me after I finally decided to get more serious, it hurts a lot. Now she is also with someone else, and now i want her more then anything. I made some bad mistakes, and would love to turn back the clock. Link to comment
puppy13 Posted November 20, 2005 Author Share Posted November 20, 2005 what makes matters worse is i am stuck at home after knee surgury and all i have to do is think . life sucks today Link to comment
Regretfulman Posted November 20, 2005 Share Posted November 20, 2005 So sorry to hear it, don't worry im home too, and i am in perfect health, just feeling depressed. You have to strike while the iron is hot i guess, as the saying goes, and we didn't and we lost out Link to comment
puppy13 Posted November 20, 2005 Author Share Posted November 20, 2005 i think she truly misses me and would take me back if she wasnt going through such a rough time . i told her how i feel and how i would take her back . i think she is totally confused . she has a smile from ear to ear every time she sees me . i think she is afraid of getting hurt . im thinking of breaking all contact with her but she might think that im not interested in her . confused is a understatement Link to comment
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