Anti Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 Well in a nut shell I was just wondering what the best method is to attract 16 year old girls? Lately I have been having some serious problems attracting girls, not entirely sure why. I do not really mind being single but I do want to go out with someone who is interesting, funny and attractive just like any other guy. Yet I haven't been meeting the right type of girls whom I am attracted to. So just wondering what techniques would you folks consider best? Thanks in advance! Link to comment
dzadze Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 When the time come, it will come ... Link to comment
harmonized Posted October 17, 2005 Share Posted October 17, 2005 What do you mean attacting girls? You haven't been meeting girls you like? If thats the case then I suggest you just go to a mall (girls love shopping) and just go up to girls and start talking to them; make good conversation and I'm sure you'll meet tons of new girls. Link to comment
Anti Posted October 17, 2005 Author Share Posted October 17, 2005 Aye that is all well and good but to be honest I am not exactly that confidant to go up and randonly start talking to to some girls in a mall. I usually rely on my personality when I am with or around people that I know well to try and attract girls who I do not know so well to come and have a chat with me. All the girls who I am friends with ar enot really my type so i'm not really interested in any of them. Link to comment
metallicachica247 Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 just be yourself dont try anything or its not really you... Link to comment
dzadze Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 some people try hard not to try HOMER: You make others feel good by making yourself look bad, and im tired of making others look good. just be yourself Link to comment
DiscipleOfChange Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 When the time come, it will come ... It's a damn annoying truth, but that's really the way it is. You also got to realize that mutual attraction is a tricky thing. It's complicated for everyone, no matter what facade they put up. Mutual attraction is a special thing and as such difficult. Yet I haven't been meeting the right type of girls whom I am attracted to. You will dude. Trust me on this one. You don't even have to search them out per se, rather keep your eyes open for them. ~Mark Link to comment
MetallicAguy Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Well, it helps to be an outgoing comfortable person and is laid-back isn't very serious about everything, I'm not saying be like don't care about life in general because that's stupid. You just have to be cool and calm like Pink Floyd's music . Kinda get what I'm saying there? It helps to have a sense of humor girls love a funny guy. Umm dress good, don't dress like a bum, don't dress like a nerd which means no Nike running shoes some random pants you'd buy at a thrift store and some raggy old T-shirt. Obviously have good hygiene if you don't already. Be optimistic, no one wants to hook up with someone that's negative all the time. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 You attract people when you aren't trying to attract people. You attract them when you are being your best, most authentic self. It isn't about what you can do to attract others, its all in how you feel about yourself. Feel good, focus on being the best you that you can be, and something will happen when the time is right. Link to comment
mae_may04 Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 I thought I'd share this. I'm new to the boards. I'm 19 and I've had a few one-date guys who completely bombed the First Date: 101 class... So when I met my current boyfriend (almost 4 months, YAY!), I was sure he didn't really like me. But he was sure to let me know that he liked my personality, he loved my laugh, he liked how "cute" I was when I talked about stuff. He made sure I knew that he noticed everything about me EXCEPT my looks. He slowly worked in what he liked about that, but he didn't make it the whole story. He paid attention to what I said, gave me time to take things as slowly or as quickly as I wanted, and was always honest. I had completely given up on finding someone who would like me. I don't party, I am overweight, I don't "primp," I'm not loud, I won't do "stuff" until I'm married, etc. I'm the classic prude. But he sees past all of that. And now I'm a little less "stuffy" hehe, sorry for the terminology, I've got no brainpower right now. I guess what I'm trying to say is, to attract girls, don't just see the hott ones, don't just see the popular ones, look past the stereotypes on the quieter ones, or the ones you never even thought of talking to. You might find her where you never thought she'd be. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted October 20, 2005 Share Posted October 20, 2005 I guess what I'm trying to say is, to attract girls, don't just see the hott ones, don't just see the popular ones, look past the stereotypes on the quieter ones, or the ones you never even thought of talking to. You might find her where you never thought she'd be. Shhh. Your not suppose to let all guys in on that secret. Now the quiet girls are going to be mobbed by guys and us quiet, nice gentleman are going to have to fight to get with the best girls. You just made it harder on us. Seriously, I agree with everything you said. Girls like you are the best girls of all and guys should start seeing that more. Link to comment
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