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I have to say I disagree with most fo you here. Personally I do not see anything wrong with changing yourself as long as the change is voluntary, you want to make that change, and you consider it a change for the better. As long as you do not compromise yourself to a large extent then there is nothing wrong with a change for the better. If you see a different life style as being good, and better than your current one then by all means change.

One word: Ego!

Aye that is all well and good but to be honest I am not exactly that confidant to go up and randonly start talking to to some girls in a mall. I usually rely on my personality when I am with or around people that I know well to try and attract girls who I do not know so well to come and have a chat with me. All the girls who I am friends with ar enot really my type so i'm not really interested in any of them.

Well in a nut shell I was just wondering what the best method is to attract 16 year old girls? Lately I have been having some serious problems attracting girls, not entirely sure why. I do not really mind being single but I do want to go out with someone who is interesting, funny and attractive just like any other guy. Yet I haven't been meeting the right type of girls whom I am attracted to. So just wondering what techniques would you folks consider best? Thanks in advance!

Yes, nothing wrong with being honest, besides you are oging out with her for a reason, it's not exactly like you actually have a crsh on these other girls. After all calling someone attractive does not mean yo want to go out with them