Be honest guys (girls opinions too)

[Maltesers]

Hey there!

 

I was just wondering how many of you guys who have girlfriends, actually talk about other girls (being singers, actresses, girl next door or even a woman you work with) to your male friends?? I mean do you ever talk about how fit this girl is or sexy even though you have a girlfriend.

 

Is this common between guys??? I really want to know. The guy I have my eye on is difficult bloke to work out. I have been trying to find out if there is a girl in his life. Yet he seems to talk about girls out of 'Charlies angels' 'Lord of the rings' and how 'decent and good looking' they are.

 

Thanks guys, have a nice night (or day)

 

Maltesers

[habitual_loser]

Depends on the person, the circumstances, and the friends. He could be completely whipped and still talking about Angelina Jolie's beautiful lips or how much he wishes Liv Tyler were in his life. That kind of banter is (usually) the male equivalent of the escalating-pitch talk you hear from some girls. You know what I'm talking about.

 

The best way to find out is to muster up some courage and ask either him or a friend of his whom you have some reason to trust.

[lifeintransit]

I think it's fairly commonplace to discuss with friends if someone's hot (i.e. people on the street or celebrities).

 

Heck, I have such conversations with my girlfriend, about males and females!

 

I guess it all depends on your mindset and level of trust.

[TweaK]

As long as ur gf/bf isnt around "what moma dont know wont hurt her"..but if its infront of ur face then its kinda disrespectful.

[Maltesers]

so it is quite natural for guys to talk about other girls even they have girlfriends?

[Amano Ginji]

yeah..when see a good one..we talk about her..i dunt think any guy will or should talk about other girls in front of their girlfriends..celebreties...thats a completely different aspect..nothing bad in talkin about hot celebs rite!!

[Maltesers]

I know guys don't talk about girls in front of their girlfriends, but I was just curious of how many or how natural it is for guy to talk about women with their mates if they have a girlfirend.

[JRM]

The short answer is yes. All guys talk about girls with their friends, reguardless of whether or not they are in a relationship.

[Anti]

Yes, nothing wrong with being honest, besides you are oging out with her for a reason, it's not exactly like you actually have a crsh on these other girls. After all calling someone attractive does not mean yo want to go out with them

[JC2006]

Guys talk about celebrity women all the time, because there's effectively zero chance of that becoming anything meaningful.

 

Guys might be more guarded commenting about attractive women they and their friends know since that sort of information can get passed around through unpredictable channels and have bad side effects.

[northernlights]

I hung out with a bunch-o non-single-boys this summer. I was kind of like the token girl in our "group", so they treated me like one of the guys. And yes, they talk about women. A lot. A loooooot.

 

Mostly celebrity women. I was quite fascinated to hear that all of the guys there were obsessed with Sharon Stone's legs in a particular scene from a particular movie they watched when they were adolescents, even though none of these guys knew each other back then. Hah. Apparently they even kept rewinding and pausing the VHS to that one shot of her legs.

 

ANYWAY...they also talk about random girls on the street. Really quick though. Just like "oh, that girl was really fit". Or if they're talking about people we know, they may throw in a "yeah, she's quite nice looking" but they won't rave about the girl. And my friends' boyfriends throw in the occasional "ooh, Angelina Jolie" comment just as much as I used to throw in the "yum, Johnny Depp" comment to my ex when we were still dating.

 

So don't stress about it too much. We're humans and we can't help noticing good looking people and mentioning it. As long as your man isn't obsessing about a particular girl who he knows personally, you're probably still number one in his eyes.