What to do when a girl says...

[rvr350]

what do you guys think about dating coworkers? I know a girl who works in my company, totally different department, don't interact professionally. But she says she doesn't want to date coworkers, but she hasn't said no to me yet, do i still have a chance? How to counter her? Thanks.

[heloladies21]

Don't listen to her excuses, if she likes you, she'll go out with you. If she uses that excuse when you ask her, she just wasn't into you.

[DN]

Maybe I'm missing something but isn't her saying she doesn't want to date co-workers the same thing as saying 'No'?

[rvr350]

Well, we started to hang out quite a bit, and besides the usual hug here or there, i think we enjoy each other's company. Though she's said to her friends she doesn't want to date coworkers because the lack of spending time together.

[lillady898]

There are a few reasons why I would never work with a co-worker, and they are:

1. Any problems would undoubtedly affect each of your work.

2. If you break up, you will have to see that person every day and will have to be able to work in a civilized manner with that person every day.

[BillyJean714]

Believe me, if she liked you enough, work wouldn't be an excuse. BUT, if she truly felt that she didn't want to mix work with pleasure and if she truly likes you, she would at least mention something along the lines of: "I really like you a lot too, but at the same time, I want to keep work professional".

 

Ultimately, if she really likes you that much, then naturally, she would also like to date you. Doesn't matter what she says, it's all in her actions/receptiveness!