Post Date Advice Needed

[remi0378]

Quick question--Say you went on a 1st lunch date with a guy last Friday, how long should one usually have to wait before hearing from him again (if he does decide to contact again..) Date had a casual, friendly feel to it--there was an attraction, but not sure if we were compatible in terms of having similar interests or personality types..

 

Also, should a woman ever contact a guy after the 1st date (under any circumstances)? I'd especially like to have a male opinion on this question..

[plasticheartsandsmiles]

I dunno, thats a hard question. I've never really been on a date with someone without knowing that we were probably gonna start going out shortly after. However, if i were in your shoes i would NOT contact him. if he's the one who initiated the date itself, then he should follow-up on it. if he goes more than a week without contacting you, i'd look for other guys. i'd give him til this coming friday and then see what happens.

 

good luck to you! i hope everything works out for you!

[kskm]

Hm. Usually I would say to call him, but I think this time you should leave the calling up to him. If he's interested I would give him a week (just because guys usually have a "waiting" period to call- some are a few days some up to two weeks) and if he doesn't call then I would start to assume that he wasn't interested romantically.