Sent a card..

[smiles21]

Long story short, me and the ex's cousins were close, they were twins. Really good funny kids to be around, got along quite well. Almost like brothers to the ex.

 

Well, its been about 8 weeks or so NC from me and the ex, and graduation is coming up for them from highschool. (finished now). So yesterday i bought a card from the drug store and stuck some movie tickets in it with a small note saying good job, and a quirky saying. I'm not trying to regain contact with the ex at all, just wanted to show i was thinking about her cousins.

 

Was this a bad idea, am i out of line?

[reflectionlessmirror]

Not at all. it has nothing to do with your ex. You have made new friends. Just because your relationship with the ex failed dosent mean you cant stayin contact with them, especiallyto honor there achievement of graduation. If anything, it will make you look very kind and considerate.

[reflectionlessmirror]

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[DN]

I agree, I think it is a kind thing to do.

[Hope75]

It was generous, and it was not over the top and it isn't like you said, "call me, let's all get together" or overstepped your boundries as an ex.

 

Well done, and quite thoughful.