scorchio Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 hi all, Before I start posted this on the back of someone elses topic, sorry forgot had to start new topic, so here it is. so sorry to the 2 that replied before and repeating myself or them saying again. me and my g/f split 2months ago...........i have no N/C for about 1 1/2months now, she didnt reply, its so difficult, want her to get in touch.... we was together for 2yrs, i was really close to her daughter. I would do anything for both of them romance for g/f, day trips out for the daughter, included the daughter in ABSOLUTELY everything, more than alot of guys would have, have done, or would do. we split up because a few silly arguments, the daughter didnt like mummy arguing or upset so became funny about that. we split up 2months ago, reason being, my g/f saying her daugher is not happy, so she has to put her 1st. The week before we split up was the weekend I was suppose to see my g/f (we only saw eachother every other weekend, because of space for her daughter and g/f - which I agreed to, of course - more than alot would do), and she went out clubbing, so I wasnt happy about that as missed her, we had a biggy argument, and she said thats the final straw. Apart from saying its over as explained, she has blanked me ever since.........(wish she is known for when gets in arguments or angry - childish i know but hey) she said hurts her to do it, i should know how I much she still feels about me and cares for me. So its not even that she has fallen out of love with me. She always said I was the only guy who has really taken a genuine interest and look after her and her daughter. she has been out with a few guys before me included the daughters dad, who all have treated her bad, she found it very hard to open up to me when we 1st started out together, she wasnt used to the love and romance, being treated nicely. but I always feel thats what it should be lie, especially when they are worth it. sorry if i gone on a bit, a brief explanantion covering events. I love them both very much still, i can handle most things, but silent treatment OUCH. in limbo now ................................... Link to comment
DN Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 I can understand about her wanting time with her daughter - but I assume she didn't take her daughter with her when she went clubbing on the weekends you weren't there? Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted June 16, 2005 Share Posted June 16, 2005 Don't buy that excuse about her breaking up with you b/c of her daughter. She broke it off b/c she lost interest in you. She just wanted to soften the blow. As for now, nobody needs 6 weeks of NC to decide if they want someone. It's too long, stay in NC and move on. Link to comment
scorchio Posted June 16, 2005 Author Share Posted June 16, 2005 no, she didnt take daughter with her lol, daughter stayed with her nan. I always offerred to baby sit when she went out, all I got was "no, you know we dont see eachother till weekends" She was always strict about putting daughter 1st, strictly weekends only we would see eachother, was hard for me..................... especially when I always offerred to be there as a support WHENEVER. Maybe I shouldnt have.. Link to comment
scorchio Posted June 16, 2005 Author Share Posted June 16, 2005 no, dont think she lost interest, right up until about 2 weeks before the split things was ok, nothing to indicate that AT ALL, still very loving, even when we split, she made very clear she still loved me, and her feelings have always been the same for me. so its not like we even feel out of love. Link to comment
scorchio Posted June 16, 2005 Author Share Posted June 16, 2005 no offence "helo", take on board what you said, thankyou. but she didnt lose interest, the relationship hadnt lost its course in that way at all, promise you. Link to comment
scorchio Posted June 16, 2005 Author Share Posted June 16, 2005 hi all, bit low miss ex and daughter tonight evenings are awfull - trying hard to do the N/C wish she was missing me as much as I am her and going through the same hurt and pain !!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment
gradle Posted June 17, 2005 Share Posted June 17, 2005 hi scorch.. i hope you're feeling better...try to do something nice for yourself...get some good takeout and a good movie, just to get your mind off of things, i know what you're going through, and it sucks, but try and be nice to yourself...one thing i'm learning is that if you're not good to yourself, no one else will be either... Link to comment
scorchio Posted June 17, 2005 Author Share Posted June 17, 2005 OUCH should I contact her, feel a bit weak last few days, miss her soooo much Link to comment
scorchio Posted June 18, 2005 Author Share Posted June 18, 2005 feel really lonely at the momement, missing them so much, im trying and trying N/C, im suffering......................... Link to comment
scorchio Posted June 18, 2005 Author Share Posted June 18, 2005 can anyone help, im struggling with this N/C, just so wanna txt or something, I know it wont help............ miss them so much, want them back so much, tearing me apart. Link to comment
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