thoughts on porn.

[Mr Meh]

I agree completely that one of the primary things in a relationship is respect of the other's feelings. I was trying to ask: at what point does it become too much? If the other person's feelings are based solely on insecurity it really is their problem, not the other's to figure out.

[trendyfcuk]

Well in my case... it's not just the insecurity. I honestly just dont think porn is very attractive... I dont like the way it portrays women etc ...

So i wanted to talk to him about it...

He respects that, and I matter a lot to him .

But thanks for the replies !

You guys are great.

[helpme145]

if I were you, i would be happier that he's getting off (if he is) in front of the computer than with someone else. Yuo gotta realize that its exrtremely difficult for men to hold back from any sex for a long time, it really gets to us. So, he's probably just doing it to relieve the pressure to have sex that would be building up.