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Hey, I'm 17 years old, and just about to start grade 12. I'm ridiculously shy when it comes to the dating game, and though I would like to be, I find I am not the most social around either, I never get invited to any parties really, or anything outside of school, though me and friends do chill in school. Any suggestions for the new school year what to do, to turn things around?

I have a tv in my bedroom, so i mostly masturbate on the floor in front of the tv in front of porn. Or else second is probably in front of the computer, third would be my bed before sleep, and fourth is the shower, (rarely)

if I were you, i would be happier that he's getting off (if he is) in front of the computer than with someone else. Yuo gotta realize that its exrtremely difficult for men to hold back from any sex for a long time, it really gets to us. So, he's probably just doing it to relieve the pressure to have sex that would be building up.

ok, here's the story: The school year just finished, and i now have two months of summer vacation. Most teens would be happy for this break, but i really am not. Sure, i love summer break, who doesn't, but there are many problems that i have to deal with but i'm not sure how to go about solving them. The main problem is friends: I have friends (or so i think), but its not a great frienship. In school, we hang out and stuff. But come weekends, i never even get thought of when they are making plans to do stuff. Now its summer and i know they're doing stuff everyday, but i probably won't see them until September. The only form of communication i have with them now is on MSN Messenger. What am i suppose to say on MSN to get invited to do stuff without sounding like an idiot? And even if i do, there comes another problem. They all live in a different area from me, and are pretty much all living on the same street. So i'm not sure what to do about this because even if i get a drive up there (which my parents wouldn't be happy about) they'll probably chill for an hour then go home for a bit and i'd be stuck haviang to go and home and wouldn't be able to come back. I know its a confusing situation, but just some hlep on what to say on MSN messenger to get them to remember me when they're making plans would be greatly appreciated.

i'm sorry to tell you but i am about 98% sure she's exxagerating. No guy can last three hours unless he has a super penis. If it took him three hours with a girl just think how long it would take by himself. Not a chance. I'd say your friends axxagerating.

i think you gotta sit down with your ex and ask her what she is feeling. It might be hard to get that anwer out of a women but you just tell her that you don't want to be hurt again and that you don't want to be with someone who only wants to make sure you aren't happy. On the other hand, she might be testing out your loyalty. You just have to sit down (or call) and talk to her and tell her how you feel. When she tells you what she wants, make the decision that you feel is best.

You should realize that dating someone to get back at someone else is not a good thing to do at all. You need to sit down with this new guy and tell him the truth. No matter how embarrassing it may be to tell him, you can't just keep playing around with this guys mind. You need to let him down gently so that he can continue with his life, and you neeed to tell your ex what you did and explain to him your reason. Hopefully he'll forgive you.

You definitely need to go get some proffessional help. I know people tell you things on this site and you feel that it is embarrassing and not worth it but i would suggest that you definitely go get some proffessional help and sort out your problems. I'd say it is a must. Remember, no matter how bad life may be looking, with a little effort and a little outside help, you will find yourself living life to the fullest.

no matter how depressed you might be, just suck it up, pull through it, it eventually, with a littlw work, things will get better.

you should try getting all your friends together, than maybe they'll be friends and you can all hang out at the same time. That should work because, in my experience, everyone can be friends if you try