share thoughts/expereinces.. on... anal?

[itry]

my bf likes it..im trying to get used to it. mission accomplished more than a couple of times. but how do those xxx girls slip it in so easily? my bf has to talk to me, coax me, and ease it in. but once its in there... Lord is it in there.

 

how do i get rid of that..."oops im about to CRAP on myself" feeling? seems like ill only enjoy it as long as im being stimulated in hole #1.

 

 

thoughts? feelings? advice?

[RooferGirl23]

My man is obsessed with it but Im waaaay too chicken!! As for the girls on film, they all take anema's so they go # 2 before they start anything. my guy says he has done it once before, but his manly-ness got covered in poop and it grossed him out totally! But he asks me for it all the time, and i dont want to be in pain.. does it hurt? I love being fingered there, but thats IT!! lol

[itry]

i started off being fingered. if u like being fingered then ull probably like the rest lol

 

no but seriously, one thing i learned is that u have to relaxxxxxxxxx or else it will hurt.

 

and u cant be nervous. train urself to relax...

and oh yeah.. use lots of lube.. or else the only thing ull be putting down there for awhile is Preperation-H

[kimichuck]

I've tried it twice with an ex bf both times really didn't enjoy. It was just weird sense of pressure kind of pain, maybe i didn't give it enough of a chance, but i think i'll stick to hole #1.

[Dannysgirl]

I've tried it a couple of times to see what it was like but it was just too painful and I felt like I was going to crap myself any minute and my husband felt like he was raping me or something because I kept flinching in pain even though he was going really slow and we used loads of KY.

So we both decided our anal career is over, not something I'm particularly sad about to be honest!

 

If you want to do it use a lot of KY and have a lot of foreplay - you could also try having a few drinks too!

[Napoleon Bonaparte]

Women, seriously, you need to always take an anema before you do anal and wash carefully. The anema destroys bacteria which could be dangerous for your boyfriend and helps prepare the rectum for sexual stimulation.

[TheVindicator]

The requirement of enemas is debated. Some says it's nearly a necessity (like above) & others wouldn't if you laid down the love in a check. However, there are some universals to anal sex:

 

1) Porn is a terrible reference. It does not depict sex as sex truly is. I don't know anyone who can have anything 'shoved' in their anus without exreme pain

 

2) Arousal moves from back to front. Orgasm once or twice clitorally or vaginally first-the go on to anal

 

3) GO SLOW!!! oy, go slow. Honestly, it doesn't sound like a good idea just to shove anything in your anus on command.

 

4) Always, always use a condom

 

5) Never go from anal to vaginal intercourse. Naturally occurring bacteria in the anus transfered will make a woman very, very, very ill.

 

6) Lots and lots of lube

 

7) Allow the woman to control initial penetration

[Napoleon Bonaparte]

Vind enema's should be done because it helps cleans the system. And anything that can minimize the presense of bacteria is healthy.