First time i had sex it didn't hurt in the slightest was just a new feeling, though 3 years later with a new bf, the first time was quite painful and had some bleeding, so maybe it depends on the bloke
Take your problem up with the universe, its called gravity! Like it or not at some point it has to come back down, unless ur in space, maybe? ... nebody on the space programme?
Well in that case if its getting boring or lasting too long, it is likely that your natural lubrication will decrease, thus increasing friction leading to feeling raw.
Only if ur not turned on so there isn't enough lubrication, or u like rough sex and like it with loads of friction, there should be no reason for it to hurt
I personally don't like condoms and neither does my partner so it does get everywhere at times. Definitely isn't the most pleasant feeling when you stand up after sex without a condom and have a trickle running down ur leg and in a patch on the bed etc etc but just have to deal with it, personally i have a pack of wet wipes by my bed and a toilet roll at least that way its dealt with quick
How old is your son? I mean its ridiculous and selfish to your son and your general family as you are putting urself at such a great health risk! ITS ALL MADNESS!
You should read the instructions and advice found in the leaflet that comes with the cream/benedryl (or even possibly on the box). It will give you a clear indication of whether it is safe for women who are pregnant to use it, if there is ne uncertainty it will say you should contact your doctor before using it. I hope that helps.
Hmm for starters i wouldn't really call them friends. Friends are people who you can get along with well and enjoy each others company. Seems like the wrong label. Have you told them subtly about how u feel about their behaviour? Unless they change in themselves it looks like you may be at loose end. I guess all i can say is keep trying to find new friends and if you have any that are particularly close to you, who u don't find annoying, treasure them!