How do I ask her???????

[NSUstud]

I really like this girl, and I am pretty sure she likes me. I am planning on asking her out in the next couple of days, but I don't know what I should say. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

 

I mean as bf/gf

[MetallicAguy]

At the end of the conversation (usually a minute, 30 seconds or 2 minutes long AT MAXIMUM!!!!) say "Alright well, if your open you want to go out for coffee [or some other ****] this week(end)?" then smile, it's probably good to let that nervousness off with a smile anyhow.

 

It's actually VERY simple to do this. It takes no effort.

 

Then before you do this make sure you have your # on a piece of paper that says "Call me" below the #. And just hand that to her if she says yeah. It's a good move lol.

[misery12]

What do you mean by going out?

As in boyfriend/girlfriend

or going out on a date?

[MetallicAguy]

What do you think? They both like each other lol.

 

He means bf/gf.

[elila]

Just a date first. You aren't really "bf/gf" until you've gone on a few dates, and decided to call eachother your bf/gf.

[misery12]

Exactly Metallica, they aren't even together yet.. he just likes her, and he "thinks" she likes him as well.

 

If you are thinking about asking her out as a girlfriend, it's way too soon.. take eilia's advice too, and go on a few dates first.

And to do this.. if she's in any of your classes, start up a conversation with her about that.. or just talk to her normally, if you usually have conversations through the day. Then just say do you want to go see a movie sometime, and if she gives you an awkward look, say "just as frineds" but chances are this wont happen. But, dont try to go out to a fancy restaurant at first... just take it easy, bowling, movie, something like that. Also, you could invite some of your friends, and her friends too.. just to make it a group date, and less awkward.

Hope this helps.