Should one ever do "no contact"?

[maew]

If someone believes that they want out, or they're on the fence, I let them go figure that out.

 

I want no part of influencing that decision. Otherwise, how could I trust it?

 

I like this, especially the last part. Anytime I have ever attempted to influence or manipulate the outcome of a relationship I have ended up unhappy. If a relationship is meant to be then it will flow with ease (for the most part) because both people are putting energy into making it succeed.