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Boyfriend turning down sex.


kita21

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I've been in a few relationships where I stopped wanting sex.

 

Well...more than a few lol.

 

The underlying issue was always the same - I was unhappy in the relationship.

 

I always have thought sex is the barometer for the relationship - when you're happy and loving each other, and putting each other first...you'll want to be all over each other.

 

When you're getting on each other's nerves...bickering...cutting each other down...being jealous...insecure...it ruins attraction, and puts the other person on the slide to no sex.

 

And once the sex train has left the building, it's REALLY hard to start having it again. Do NOT "just see how it plays out" because every day with no sex is just another day that the chasm between you widens.

 

Lack of sex is a symptom of the real problem. Figure out what the real problem is. :-)

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