okcemt Posted February 23, 2018 Share Posted February 23, 2018 Hi there. My wife and I have been together for 6 years. We almost got divorced this year and are trying to hold on to what we have. I’m ashamed to say I was abusive in our relationship. I don’t condone it I’m just being honest. Well naturally she left me and fell in love with another guy and moved in with him for a while. After she left I moved to another state because I assumed that we were done and that it was all my fault. Before I moved I had a one nighter with a random woman because of my pain. I regret it. Then my wife ended things with the guy and she wants to work things out with me. I love her so much. I got an apartment for us and she quit her job and was going to move but then changed her mind at the last moment. She moved in with her parents. I don’t blame her for not trusting me. But I’ve had counseling about my behavior and have changed completely. I want her back despite everything. I want her to have our children and to grow old with her. I told her I won’t pressure her to move in with me and I don’t. But it tears me up inside to be apart. The plan is that we will be back together once I finish paramedic school in 18 months. I’m just looking for some advice on how to best handle this. Link to comment
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