Mrs34836 Posted December 12, 2017 Share Posted December 12, 2017 Im so confused about my marriage. it's a roller coaster of super high times and lowest lows. We haven't had the best communication lately. The icing on the cake today was his mom called asking for my account password to buy us passes for Christmas. He granted her access to our theme park account without even asking me (setup different password for her with her name and #1) wow really?! I asked him to please ask me first in the future. He said he didn't think it was a big deal. This is escalated into me telling him how frustrated I was with his family never liking me and always manipulating him like a puppet. Words got exchanged to the point that I asked him why he would want to betray his wonderful wife and daughter. He replied that I'm not wonderful. He is normally kind to me but recently the more he talks to his mom the more disrespectful he has become. He says I'm controlling and the reason why our business is failing. Because I don't work enough. It's a mess. I will probably get people tellling me to leave him or saying it's my fault. But what I want to know is how do you gain respect for yourself. I try to workout, dress well, do my share of house work. And how do I show him respect without letting him walk all over me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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