Nsomnia901 Posted December 8, 2017 Share Posted December 8, 2017 I met this girl online, she moved across the state to be with me... We got pregnant. The relationship happened fast.... Everything did... I don't even think we had time to fall in love. This past Sept, we split up... I felt neglected because she just acted like she didn't care if I was there or not. I wanted to work on fixing things and she ended things... I immediately filed for custody and make sure she couldn't move with my daughter away from me. She got served papers... We came up with our own custody and that is now resolved and court approved. She wants to stay in house and raise our daughter. I am still holding onto the hope something brings us back together. We both have said so.e very awful things.. She feels I have been verbally abusive and she doesn't trust me.. And I feel she's been neglectful and she has said and done nasty things. Including telling the court that she fears for out daughters safety if I were to get custody and my life is a mess. Both were complete false statements. Every time I've tried to move on she has made comments or seemed upset. Which makes me feel there's hope. But then acts like she doesnt care. So then weeks go and I talk to her about moving out and she immediately wants to know if I'm seeing someone. I was talking g to a girl and my daughter grabbed phone.. She saw it was a girl and she got all upset. And keeps saying my new gf... And it's not like that. So she acts and tells me it's over. Then once I finally accept terms and to something to separate us, she makes or acts like it hurt her... Which confuses me and then I get upset and my emotions are all over. I lose my temper and yell and say mean things... Then she turns that Into this isn't worth fixing.. Or I can't forgive you... But then she leads on acting like we're together. There hasn't been sex in 4 months. There was talk about it thanksgiving but never happened. I'm emotionally depleted. Im depressed. I would still try to fix this.. She says it's not fixable... But I'm so afraid to make a move and her thinking I'm done. Our daughter is amazing, and I have begged for forgiveness so many times do my part of all this... And give this family another chance... She always says no, but acts like its happening. I don't know what I'm doing anymore... Please help! Link to comment
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