Why did she even call me?

[unattached]

I move on from this girl and say, hey if she doesn’t respect my time enough to stop playing games then I’m done. A couple days later she calls and tells me, it’s weird we haven’t spoken in so long. Plus some other stuff. So I stupidly respond and acknowledge that is has been a little weird. I ask her how’s she been. And she doesn’t respond. I’m thinking hey maybe, she’s done with the. But here comes the crappy. Oh I get to him when I get to him. Why she even call me if she didn’t wanna talk to me? I don’t get it I know a lack of response isn’t that big of a deal. But this just feels like some stupid game to me. Why start a conversation to then ignore me.

[SweetGirl28]

She may have contacted you out of boredom in the moment. Why don't you just block her?

[unattached]

I don’t know. I guess it’s because I don’t want that to be true. It’s like I don’t want to ruin something that can happen. But at the same time she’s holding me at a certain position. And doesn’t act like she cares until I say I’m through

[katrina1980]

>>So I stupidly respond and acknowledge it has been a bit weird."

 

^This may be why she hasn't responded back. She was expecting a different response.

 

It's anyone's guess what she was expecting, perhaps something more reassuring, who knows.

 

I actually get it.

 

I once sent an 'ex' (guy I dated briefly) an email, and his response was so "meh" I just let it go. Clearly he was no longer interested.

 

I ran into him a few weeks later and he was like "why did you never respond back"? lol