PNWBartender Posted November 15, 2017 Share Posted November 15, 2017 I started seeing this guy a couple of months ago. It was immediate attraction on both of our parts the day we met in May- but it wasn’t until September that we started talking and hanging out. We were texting all day every day about anything and everything. The feelings became strong on both our parts but he was always the aggressor as far as vocalizing those emotions. He would say things such as “I care about you more than you know” and “I’m in this for the long haul and I’m not going anywhere unless you tell me to.” Well, a week ago, he started getting sick (a cold/flu bug that I had the week prior) but after a couple of days of being sick, his behavior also started to change. Texts were fewer and farther between, and they also became a lot less affectionate. There were less phone calls, too. I was made aware by a friend of both of ours that he has been on meds for depression. But, he hasn’t told me that it’s somehjng he struggles with- so I haven't brought it up. He has told me a couple of times that his “head and his life are not right, right not” and went to the docs and told me they did a blood draw. But never told me the results of that or even the actual reason they did one. He still texts me- but mostly after I’ve reached out first. Before, when I’d text, he’d address everything brought up by me in my texts to him. Now- he avoids answering any kind of serious question and sticks to responding to the most superficial things like work and weather. He occasionally will tell me that he’s thinking of me, sometimes he will say he misses me, he’s toyed around with the idea of seeing me and hanging out but then tells me that he wants nothing to do with anyone or anything. He has miscommunicated a few things I’ve said to him through text and has kind of snapped at me as a result. And when I explain what I meant- he responds with “no worries” I guess what I’m getting at is that I want to know what’s going on and where I stand with him. I’ve specifically asked him and he’s not answered me. His interactions with me are nothing like before and where he used to constantly tell me- multiple times a day- how much he likes me and is thinking of me- that’s rare to non existent now. I’ve asked him if he’s wanting me to leave him alone and no answer. He replays/screenshots all my snaps to him. He likes things I post in my Instagram. But everything else is so weird. Does he still feel the same about me? Is his depression keeping him from FEELING things? I’m so confused. Help! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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