Rivers485 Posted October 15, 2017 Share Posted October 15, 2017 Hi, I have a coworker that I’m steadily noticing more and more and almost about to fall for. We spend a lot of time together after work, we go to dinner at least twice a week and we eat lunch together almost every day, we have many things in common. And honestly she is everything I have always wanted in a woman. To make things more complicated, She is engaged and planning to get married within a year, her fiancé works really long hours, and I feel that I’m subbing for him in a way. I met the guy and he is an annoying little punk , and I’m being kind. it’s not misguided jealousy as luckily I’m older and still posses some objectivity, I just have a hard time seeing a woman of that quality ending up with such a joke of a guy. I’m also 15 years older than her. There are so many other details as we have been “together” for almost 2 years now, to bring a closer picture; we watch the same shows and read the same books and split lunches and dinners including sharing utensils and bites. I would really appreciate some advice on how to go forward as I’m starting to think about her all the time now. And I do not want to lose my best friend. You can ask me for elaboration or whatever details that might help formulate your advice, I really need help. Thank you, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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