DiscoNova Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 Hey. My girlfriend of two years broke up with me last night but said that although that chapter was now closed, she was open to going on a date with me next week to 'get to know each other again', adding, 'but right now, we are single'. Is this weird? I'm not sure how to take it. It's almost like she's decided to press some kind of reset button. I've booked a posh restaurant for Tuesday thinking if it's our last date, then it might as well be a nice one. Also, we live together, and I'm getting anxiety just thinking about her being intimate with other people. How do I deal with this? Any advice on either of the above would be much appreciate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
forthesakeofit Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 Hello DiscoNova, I would say that it's rather odd. normally you wouldn't break up with someone then ask them to go on a date with you. It seems as if she's either stringing you along or confused. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycomb8 Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 Don't be a doormat. It seems like there's someone she has her eye on, most likely breaking up with you so she can get sexual with someone else without her "technically cheating"... I'd say it's best to cut her off and move on. Don't let her string u along. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 It sounds like she's already got a date lined up, and it's not with you. She's giving herself a way to see someone else without technically cheating. At the same time, she's given you hope you can rebuild in case it doesn't work out with whomever she's got her eye on. Sorry OP, but unless you two had some legitimate issues that need working on and had been having problems, this has all the indications of a third party being involved. Either way, I would not be taking her out to some fancy restaurant. You need to know what exactly is going on with her, and not reward that type of behaviour with a date. An honest conversation in which you both lay your cards on the table, yes. Over a posh meal, no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giblesp Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 She wants to keep you as a back up option, or use you for sex. Tell her that your not interested in friendship and have more to offer a woman than being a plastic dildo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bladesofsteel Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 lol... impressive Dump her permanently Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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