raindrop96 Posted June 20, 2017 Share Posted June 20, 2017 Hello, everyone. I was broken up with a bit more than a month ago, although in the end it was mutual, but really it was more him, I was willing to work on it. I will try to keep this short. We had been dating for 6 months and the first 5 were probably the happiest of my life, but the last month was torture, because I was leaving for the US for 4 months and then Spain for 1 year (we lived in the UK). He said we are going on a 'hiatus' and when I come back we could try again. I believe this because we had a lot of love and respect for each other (I don't believe in The One, but I think he was as close to that concept for me as one could get) and we really didn't have any disagreements other than how stressful an LDR would have been for us at this period in our lives (both early 20s, finding jobs, studying, etc., a lot of things changing). The problem is I miss him terribly and not a day goes by when I don't think of him. I'm really afraid he'll forget me. A year and a half is such a long time... Everyone says 'move on' but I don't know how, I'm trying, I'm working, I'm making new friends, but it really hurts. Sometimes something small reminds me of him and I can barely hold back the tears. We have been NC for a month, almost immediately after the breakup... I just need some hope and some help, guys. Please. I don't want to be like this for a year and a half... I could reach out to him after I go back to Europe, because when we're both there, we could see each other often and it wouldn't be as stressful as in America... I would really appreciate your help. Thanks for reading. Link to comment
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