just19k Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 My bi-girlfriend of over a year just left me. I'm sure it was a collection of issues but I honestly think the main issue was that, I wasn't okay with her hanging out with bi-friends from previous relationships or ones that had expressed interest in her. My logic is that if I wanted to hang out with ex-girlfriends, she wouldn't be okay with that and she agreed. However, somehow, this wasn't the same. About a month ago, she had been contacted by the girl her previous girlfriend had left her for. She contacted my girlfriend to say she was sorry, begun to talk and about a week ago they meet up at a restaurant to eat and have drinks. There was another friend present. However, I made the case that, if I went out with a friend and then invited some chic from work she didn't know, she would be upset. She agreed, but somehow this wasn't the same. I said I was okay with her having already established, gay/bi friendships. I just didn't see the need for new ones. Just as I wouldn't try to make new girl/friends, out of respect for her. Am I being irrational? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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