justwaiting Posted May 1, 2017 Share Posted May 1, 2017 I've been messaging a guy every day for a week now. When we text, he says he likes me and tends to be very flirty. But when we're just having a normal conversation, his replies are short, so I have to ask random questions to keep our conversation going. We have met in real life once for drinks and he was very good at keeping up a conversation (I was surprised considering how he is with messaging). We have made plans to see each other again, we have agreed on a day, place, and time... so far. The issue is this: he's not very good with texting, usually gives me short replies and doesn't make the effort to start and keep up a conversation (it's usually me sending the first message and asking him questions). But he has stated that he likes me and did show interest in me in real life. I tested him out by not sending him a message first for once to see what he will do. So far, for more than a day, no message. It shows he hasn't been online since we last talked, but I don't think he's very busy. I know his schedule and when I would message him, even if he hasn't been online much, he'll reply right away (it seems that he'll only go online when I message him). I haven't committed much to him yet, and I want to make sure I'm not wasting my time. I don't want to seem clingy because I have messaged him first mostly and now I stopped to see what he'll do. But no message from him. How should I go about this? Link to comment
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