sydfrk Posted April 24, 2017 Share Posted April 24, 2017 Hello, my ex broke it off with me a few weeks ago after 1 year of being together, we had all the highs and lows and our values and the foundations were spot on. Since the broke up we have had sex many times, seen each other many times, I have usually instigated the meetings, most times he has said yes. But on this Friday night just gone he finally opened up about a couple of things, he said to me "if we stayed together it would have cost me my family". The major reason we broke up was because of his family - he admits they were awful and did everything they could in ending it. They are all happy. He said he has seen them in a different light now and is setting goals to get away from them and live by himself. I believe him. I know he still loves me, but he wouldn't dare tell them he is seeing me, even when I meet him to do things, we meet in a car park and go from there when he sister is home as she would go beserk. The question I have is that we are only friends now, I want so much more, I am on anti depressants now and counselling - I don't know if I should just let him be with his decision or keep seeing him as friends. He has no friends and I am his favourite person in the world he always tells me that. In me not seeing him I think will he miss me enough to think stuff them and think about us or if I see him it may only hurt me? I am so confused as I only look forward to seeing him, but it is alot on his terms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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