Emj2006 Posted February 28, 2017 Share Posted February 28, 2017 Hello guys, So quick background story I was dating this girl since November 4th and we made it an "official" relationship New Year's Day. We started off very serious talking about marriage, kids, etc. but About a month and a half after New Year's it seemed like we lost a bit of connection and as of last weekend, she said that she needed some time away as she said she needed to get her paranoia about her health in order first(she currently has a bit of a Health Paranoid Personality Disorder where her health gives her so much paranoia, along with a bit of anxiety and depression). She said of course she doesn't want to stop talking to me and that she enjoys being with me but said that she wants to take care of that first. After asking her more information, I found out the truth that she really got pushed away from me and didn't feel a "connection" as she felt like I was relying on her for my own happiness(which in a way it may have seemed that way but not always the case) and she said it was like a lot of pressure. She was frustrated with my communication as she felt it was terrible as well(which on my end I acknowledge it could've been a lot better). My question is this. Since as of this past Friday, she has since then commited to not be in a serious relationship with me any longer. My question is this. What would you guys do in my situation? Try to win her back and show her that I am strong and don't rely on her for my own happiness? Try to somehow light and spark it up somehow in hopes of getting back with her? Or should I just move on and focus on myself. I'm not sure what to do at this point. I have the strength to move on myself, however I guess I still have feelings for her and wouldn't mind having her by my side again. Link to comment
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