bullsfanjulia Posted February 17, 2017 Share Posted February 17, 2017 So my boyfriend and I broke up because he couldn't handle a long distance relationship any longer emotionally. He'd been telling me for a while he had issues to deal with but he wanted to move to be with me eventually. As time went on he got a better job in his town and a new apartment. I always actually felt like he was more into the relationship than I was (don't get my wrong i love him with all of my heart) but he was the one who told me he loved me first etc so i know he loved me (no matter how much my overactive mind tells me he didn't). We were truly best friends and he called me his soul mate which is something I definitely felt as well. It's been over for about a month and we haven't had any contact. When he was breaking up with me he told me he loved me and that it really hurt him, that he didn't WANT to move into the new place, that he didn't want to give everything up but he just couldn't handle the distance. I was really upset and thought for a while that if he truly loved me that he would do absolutely anything injustice power to be with me, but now i'm realizing that may have been a little "black and white" thinking and life/love isn't always black and white. I truly love him still and I always will, I just have a gut feeling that things aren't over between us, that one day we will be together again when we've both grown. I don't know if that's me being overly hopeful or what but when i'm highly intuitive and my gut instinct is usually right. I guess i'm just curious to see what anyone else thinks? Has this ever happened to anyone else? Also I've been wondering if he misses me. He still follows me on social media even though i no longer follow him. Link to comment
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