psot2 Posted February 7, 2017 Share Posted February 7, 2017 I've been very clingy with my boyfriend in the past, demanding more from him, questioning him when he did things which I perceived as wrong (not sending me texts on time etc, questioning where he was), even breaking up with him due to things that were going on in my head and then getting back together. This went on for a few months, and I felt his interest slipping, so I asked him how he felt. He said he was still attracted to me physically and emotionally, but not mentally. I stopped taking the pill after stipulating that it might have been causing me to act more emotionally than I otherwise would. I was right, and my relationship anxiety reduced quite a bit. The problem is that I feel he still doesn't see me the same way as he did before... the strong independent and smart woman he originally saw me as. He now sees me as dependent and a chore, and I'm scared that he always will. Do you think it's possible for him to regain his attraction to me over time? I know he loves me, but I don't think that it'll be enough for me in the long term if I don't regularly feel affection from him in the long term... Link to comment
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