I cant tell if she likes me.

[mysteryman]

Well Ive run into a hard problem. Last year I met a girl, she was in all my classes and she was a nice girl. We started hanging out more and more and more often and had a good time but we never dated but she was pretty flirty like touching me and on the last day of school see shes not one to hug a lot lol especially guys and she followed me all the way to the exit and stopped me and gave me a hug.

 

Well I thought we might get together this year and see right off the bat I broke my leg in a football accident. And she was in all my classes again lol. Everyday including some she actually fought for the seat, she sat beside me. She was concerned with my leg and all. Then in another class I got to where I could sit behind her and we had a good time and she even walked with me to classes together.

 

But things happened and I got a gf and she told me she liked this guy. Well it all fell apart on both. But now shes dating a guy. A real jerk and "playa" and hes from another school.

 

But shes a flirty kind of girl I guess. But she does flirt with me I mean touchy and says things. Like she'll come up to me and just touch me lol. like a tap or say hey to me and none of my other friends. I mean this happens a lot. She'll grab me by the arm and want me to walk with her and I do and Ive only seen her do that to one other person and that was once. But see I fear shes out of my league. Shes really pretty I mean Im not too bad but I dont know. Ive had people actually come up and without even talking about her say we need to date lol. No one knows I like her and we're good friends.

 

Saturday Im an escort in a beauty pagaent shes gona be in. And she said something like I should be her escort or I will. But I dont know what to do. I mean we went bowling a few weeks ago and I payed her way and she didnt want me to but she left and forgot to pay. she wanted to pay me back although i didnt take her money she said I do too much and am good to her. But I just dont know... please help. thanks

 

Sincerly

Mysteryman

 

 

[MetallicAguy]

Well are you talking about the girl who used to like you before here?

But shes a flirty kind of girl I guess. But she does flirt with me I mean touchy and says things. Like she'll come up to me and just touch me lol. like a tap or say hey to me and none of my other friends. I mean this happens a lot. She'll grab me by the arm and want me to walk with her and I do and Ive only seen her do that to one other person and that was once. But see I fear shes out of my league. Shes really pretty I mean Im not too bad but I dont know. Ive had people actually come up and without even talking about her say we need to date lol. No one knows I like her and we're good friends.

Or is this the girl dating the guy that goes to the other school?

[mysteryman]

I never said she usetoo like me and its only one girl not 2..

[MetallicAguy]

So do you need help flirting with her, asking her out, what's the problem here? (Sorry if I sound stupid; just woke up after a long day)

[mysteryman]

Well part of the problem is I dont know how to act or respond lol. plus the main problem is i cant tell if she likes me lol

[MetallicAguy]

Oh ok I get it, about the beauty pageant thing. I don't think you should; your always around her and eventually you will drive her away. Sounds stupid but it's how it works. Not like some other guys going to do it and she's going to fall for him. Just give her a rest for a while. After the pageant and she asks why you didn't be her escort she'll be all over you lol.

[pengpeng3489]

if you really like her than tell her, even if she already know, refresh her memory. Or you can just try to ignore her for a while, she might just feel that without you by her side, its different. Sometimes, if you care about a person too much, they really don't notice. But, its when you are really gone, then they regret what they have lost and will hope things will be back to what it use to be. But hey, what do i know, i guess i just been watching too much tv or something. Good luck, you'll find it right...

Follow your heart...because only your hearts know the love its meant for you...

[MetallicAguy]

This might kinda be a thing you do for your gf but this will flatter her and REFRESH her memory. Buy her a handful of roses in that gift wrap type **** that's plastic. Then in the card you can write something related to "Thought of you, felt like giving roses to my special girl" something like that. Well that's something I'd do for a gf lol. "Special girl" kinda falls into gf so your on your own on figuring that out. But buy her the roses make sure they smell good!! and she will show it off to her friends, seriously dude on V-day, this chick got a handful of roses in the plastic crap from her bf on V-Day with some card and with chocolate in a heart-shaped box and all the girls were jealous. They went over to look at it. They said "OMG!!!!! I wish my bf did that for ME!! Your SOOO Lucky!!" lol.

[mysteryman]

But I cant give her flowers.. shes not my gf and she has a bf. so i mean Id look stupid

[MetallicAguy]

Well I don't know then...think outside of the box; you'll come up with something.

[mysteryman]

Im trying to.. but i cant. I mean if we were dating id have her roses of course but were not. And I dont wana embarrse myself either.

 

Mysteryman

[MetallicAguy]

How is giving her roses embarrassing? lol. What's embarrassing is not giving her roses and you guys have been frequently hanging out for like 8 months. And she probably knows you like her! Believe me dude, they can tell. They can read body language 10 times better than us.

[mysteryman]

Well she does have a bf. Plus theres gona be several girls i know there so I mean I cant give her roses and no one else? but I dont know I may haftoo go for it? I mean who knows lol.