Why am I not okay with my boyfriend being attracted to other women?

[Pombloke]

Wow, there's some really negative nasty comments on here!

IMO we all see other attractive people around even once we're exclusive. Doesn't mean one will cheat necessarily unless one has a past of regular cheating or promiscuity. That can be a red flag! I'm sure you find other dudes attractive from time to time! However, also IMO if he's regularly stating to another girl she's hot then this is disrespectful to you. How would he feel if you were doing this in regards to other guys? Ask him.

[Batya33]

I don't want you to think I asked him to boost my ego or anything. I asked because he has constantly been liking and commenting on pictures. Sorry if you thought I did it for positive feedback.

 

I would not be ok with that- it is disrespectful.