Can't make up her mind.

[Someonewhoneedshelp]

Alright i will try to keep this short, i asked a girl to a dance about a month ago, we went and had a blast, and a few days afterwards she started to act very strange and avoiding me. I found it was becuase she didnt really like me and she felt bad for leading me on (she really acted like she did like me fooled me and a bunch of others) and she started kinda goin out with this other guy. Then about two weeks ago they broke up. Me and her talked on AIM alot, hours at a time and i had a feeling she liked me with the things she was saying, how she wanted to go to places and wanted me to go with her, ect... then saturday before valentines day she asked me to ask her out on monday, of course i was happy becuase i still did like her, then sunday she told me she needed more time, but asked to be my valentine. Then valentines day she said she didnt want to go out with me but she wanted to go out with this guy she really liked since 7th grade (shes a freshman now).

 

Basically i know she likes the other guy for a fact, not sure if he likes her or not but my question is i guess if that guy doesnt like her or they end up breaking up if it would be worth tryin to go out with this girl, because i kinda think she does like me a little bit just likes the other guy more...

 

and if it isnt worth goin for her then any tips how to get over her? we are sitll really good friends and i like her alot and no matter how hard i try its hard to keep her off my mind

[MetallicAguy]

Don't keep going for her unless you want her to hate you. Basically if she says she likes this guy from 7th grade that's just saying that she isn't attracted to you. It's hard to detach from a girl, but you have to learn it's not meant to be with her it's just infatuation anyway around that age.

[tanned_production]

Don't chase her excessivly if she's not interested.

talk to her about hanging out/being friends, but dont push the dating idea if she's into someone else.

Good luck!

[Someonewhoneedshelp]

yes thats what ive been doing really, we are still really good friends. we actually got closer ever since i asked her out, but i havnt brought up me going out with her since hse told me she didnt want to, i guess if she changes her mind she'd tell me, or show me signs. until then i guess ill just keep doin what im doin.

[Someonewhoneedshelp]

Ok, she just told me that the guy she liked said he liked her to and that he was gonna ask her out when he got his license or something march 29th. So basically i know that i probably wont be going out with her, in the near future at least, and just nee some tips on how to get over her, cuz i still really like her and its hard just to stop.