Fender Bender Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 so i'm goin on a date (if u can call it one...) with my new girlfriend to some skating party that is supposed to replace a dance... neways, through a little bit of experience, i heard girls like comedy. but what do they want to hear from you? a joke as funny as hell or a lasting conversation? if anyone could give a few pointers on what girls really want to hear, hears a thanx in advance to ya.. Link to comment
ksk0_0 Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 Well... for one - don't tell a hella long story - its boring, keep it short and to the point; just go along - relax, have fun and make random jokes Link to comment
Fender Bender Posted February 13, 2005 Author Share Posted February 13, 2005 know any good starting topics? we're both sort of new to each other. me and my friend would hang out w/ her sometimes when she was with her friend, so we sort of know each other. neways, she seems sort of shy. when i called her to ask her to the party, she seemed sort of shy.. there was a long, awkward silence in the middle of the call too... we still love each other though. don't really know what she likes yet.. guess that might be a good topic starter. first time on a "date" so i don't really know the best things to ask to start a good conversation... Link to comment
Gfunk Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 Usually it's easy to make girls laugh when you act random, and respond randomly to things they say. You kinda have to make a fool of urself, but it makes them laugh and if ur philosphy is correct, they will begin to like u more. Link to comment
Zimetra Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 Jokes have to be spontaneous, there's no recipe! If there's a spark between the two of you, you will instantly make each other laugh. If you don't hit off, then no memorized jokes are going to change it. Link to comment
ShySoul Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 Girls want you to be you. Jokes and long conversations are good, as long as they come naturally and your not trying to foce it. Be yourself and you should be able to make her smile and she'll have a good time. If she's your girlfriend then she should like being around you. She wouldn't be going if she didn't have a good time with you. So don't think about what you've heard, just do what comes naturally to you. Link to comment
SheepLy Posted February 13, 2005 Share Posted February 13, 2005 Girls want you to be you. Jokes and long conversations are good, as long as they come naturally and your not trying to foce it. Be yourself and you should be able to make her smile and she'll have a good time. If she's your girlfriend then she should like being around you. She wouldn't be going if she didn't have a good time with you. So don't think about what you've heard, just do what comes naturally to you. like this guy says... Just be yourself. If you try to be funny most likely you'll either end up making a fool of yourself or you won't be funny. Just relax and enjoy the time you spend together and i'm sure she'll laugh and have a good time if you just be yourself. Link to comment
Kaia Posted February 14, 2005 Share Posted February 14, 2005 Don't worry too much about it. Since you two will be skating, a good starting conversation is asking her anything related to skating. (e.g. "do you skate often?") If she is too shy and give one word answer, then you can elaborate on your own experience, think of some funny encounters you've had. If her skating experience is limited, offer to teach her some stuff, hold her hands. (otherwise, u can ask her to teach you ) Link to comment
shawtbus Posted February 18, 2005 Share Posted February 18, 2005 Well dude its simple. Girls do like comedy alot sometimes more than looks which works out for me ur everyday comedian. They dont wanna hear knock knock jokes or any about a white black and mexican guy. whenever u can u know just throw in a joke in whatever ur talkin bout. Dont make it seem like ur tryin to hard though and if the laughter thing isnt workin for u try to play the sweet guy card. Thats ur advice to day from the legendary p.i.m.p Link to comment
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