How to connect with your man in a deeper level during sex

[Vanillarabbit]

Hi,

 

My bf comments that he does not connect with me emotionally when we are having sex.

 

Wanna know your thoughts and opinions on how to create a deeper level of emotional connection during sex.

 

Thanks alot!

[Movingforward3]

I would some more information about what you mean by a deeper connection. Men, typically gain a closer connection via sex. Is he done quickly? Does he not kiss you? What are you looking to get from him?

[Vanillarabbit]

I would some more information about what you mean by a deeper connection. Men, typically gain a closer connection via sex. Is he done quickly? Does he not kiss you? What are you looking to get from him?

 

I think longer foreplay would do the trick? yea, we do kiss. but not those that are really intense ones.

It is my bf who complains that he doesn't feel connected. Its probably the close feeling. Our foreplays are not that long.

 

Any suggestion?

[notalady]

Me and my bf often look into each other's eyes a lot during. Sometimes just stop and look into each other's eyes for a while and caress each other's faces, lean in for a tender, long kiss. I find that's when I feel really connected.

[Vanillarabbit]

 

Usually, it is the morning. and I usually initiate, and he takes the lead.

[toby17]

he does not connect

 

This isn't your problem; it's his.

 

Wanna know your thoughts and opinions on how to create a deeper level of emotional connection during sex.

 

I wouldn't.

 

And sorry but you need to have more self-worth/pride/outrage/something. If someone said this to me, there's no way I'd be trying to forge a 'deeper connection' with them.

[Dottieflanogon]

Sex is definitely a physical connection,it will not make a man connect emotionally unless you already have that connection outside the bedroom.

[rustysim]

I think this is his issue to work on, not yours

 

What's he like afterwards? Does he show affection or move off quickly?