Dylan111 Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 My friends do this alot. When we have something planned out to do, on the day of they will tell me they can't do it anymore, or worse... Sometimes they won't even show up. This has happened to me all through out the summer(no lie) I am not a bad friend... They just do this. Is this normal for people you're friends with to do? Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 no darling its crap ...my daughter has had all this before and as a mum sat watching it all its horrid . It's a long summer when your sat on you're own . You need to find new friends or at least speak up for yourself with them and not allow this treatment . Link to comment
agent1607307371 Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 No, it's not normal. Dump them. You might be alone until you get new friends, but you will be in a better place than being the guy who gets dumped on. Link to comment
DoF Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 They are not your friends if they don't have decency to at least call you and let you know. You are getting stood up, constantly. THEY ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS! Friends don't do that to each other. Let them go and find new ones..... Link to comment
Dottieflanogon Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 If they treat you this way, they are not true friends. They are totally fake and are takers. You need to find someone else to hang with. Someone who has the same interests as you. Someone where you both have many things in common, Never give up. If you find one true friend in a lifetime, consider yourself fortunate. These are acquaintances not friends. Link to comment
indea08 Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 Just wanted to throw this in there so you know you're not alone. It seems like EVERYONE that's high school aged up to about 27-30 are this way now days. They don't commit to anything incase something better comes up. Or they'll commit to something saying "I'll text you later to get details" and you never hear from them. And most of the time if they do actually show up, they spend 80% of the time or more on their phones. Sometimes I wish I had been born in the 70s. I don't like where society is now, or where it's headed. Sorry I can't give you advice, just letting you know I'm right there with you. Link to comment
DancingFool Posted September 2, 2015 Share Posted September 2, 2015 No, not normal. They are not really your friends, more like acquaintances who may or may not consider you as is convenient for them and basically ditch you the rest of the time. Time for you to ditch them and go work on getting actual friends. Link to comment
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