Sees a bright future but cannot commit at the moment? Help please

[praisechange]

Hi all:

 

I was sent a letter last Saturday, as boyfriend previously asked for space to think during the past 2 weeks.

 

Just wondering whether any of you have heard of/ experienced a situation where the boyfriend insists he sees a bright future, however due to financial(in process of moving out from ex's home+he is picky about finding a good neighborhood within reasonable budget) and emotional (in pain over previous troublesome 5-year relationship which officially broke off last year) reasons, cannot currently commit? I am not even sure if I am still in a relationship, and I am not sure whether he still loves me or I should continue to love him the way I used to?

[mhowe]

You just got a dramatic "let's be friends" speech. He broke up with you and now wants you to be his friend while he wallows in thoughts of his ex.

 

Take a pass. Tell him there is no need to meet and talk.

[Capricorn3]

I agree with mhowe. Are you willing to sit around and wait and wait and wait until he eventually "comes around"? He can't expect you to hang around and wait while he sorts himself out. Let him go on his merry way and live your life to the fullest.

[praisechange]

Hi Moderator:

 

I think I will take your advice and move on with my life.

 

Thank you for your reply!!

 

May I request the quoted section of the letters to be hidden or deleted? I think the main body of my post can address the situation and the letter quotes are somewhat private in this matter. I would really appreciate this! Thanks again!

[Capricorn3]

May I request the quoted section of the letters to be hidden or deleted? I think the main body of my post can address the situation and the letter quotes are somewhat private in this matter. I would really appreciate this! Thanks again!

The quoted private letters have been deleted.

[praisechange]

Thanks again! You are the best!!!