sasha12 Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 Is it bad for a girl do want sex more often than her bf wants it? I"m always thinking about sex with my bf and even after we had sex I want more. Are there any girls out there with this same problem? Guys does it bother you if your gf wants more sex even when you don't want it? Link to comment
XxxMUAHxxX Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 I've never exactly had this happen to me before, but hey, what's wrong with a girlf wanting it too?! Haha, More than likely, if you have ever not wanted to have sex, and they did, that's how they feel. Link to comment
Abacab Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 Hello sasha... As indicated in many other posts throughout the site, women peak sexually in their mid-30's. So, I suppose nothing is wrong with your desires. Since most men peak sexually in their mid-20's, it's not uncommon for a woman your age to find her partner lacking the same desire for sex. I'd prefer a partner with a high sex-drive, and many other men do as well. Cheers Link to comment
Day_Walker Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 This is a common problem for men, typically younger men want sex more than their partners are willing to give. It is rare that we get the amount of sex we would like to have when you are in a relationship and your partner wants less sex then typically you will be having less sex. Thats just how it works, if the two people can reach some kind of agreement and compromise about the amount of sexual activity then thats more beneficial but that doesnt always happen. Link to comment
lonelyandblue Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 I don't think it's bad no matter your age. It is just a difference. Everyone has their own individual desires and differences. But I am the same way and quite a bit younger, so I wonder if this is normal? Can a woman peak earlier than the certain age that someone came up with? Link to comment
sasha12 Posted January 5, 2005 Author Share Posted January 5, 2005 I don't know if I really agree that it has to do with age IMO, when I was younger I didn't want sex at all. I guess I wasn't really atracted to the guy that I was with at the time. But "wow" the guy I'm with right now! I'm very attracted too! I think it has alot to do with attraction. Link to comment
marijo2480 Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 I think so too! Well, you could try to do sexy little things to get him aroused more often. If doing these things don't get him to want you more, you should seriously consider your sexual compatability. Whether people like to admit it or not, sex is an important aspect to a relationship....especially one in which the both of you are really serious of one another and hope that it will last a lifetime. Link to comment
sasha12 Posted January 5, 2005 Author Share Posted January 5, 2005 Well, I think the problem might be that I have lot's of energy "sexual energy" he he. ..... he works long hours and get's tired alot. Link to comment
marijo2480 Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 Then give the guy a little break! If he gets home tired after a hard day of work, massage him down while wearing some sexy lingerie. Make him a nice dinner. Touch him places...he'll be aroused!! Link to comment
Beec Posted January 5, 2005 Share Posted January 5, 2005 I don't think it is too unusual. What is important is how you deal with it. If you push him to get more, than he may want it less. Instead of pushing him to give it up, work on making him want it more. Seduce him. Link to comment
sasha12 Posted January 5, 2005 Author Share Posted January 5, 2005 thanks for that piece of advice Beec! Link to comment
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