jmantra Posted July 24, 2014 Author Share Posted July 24, 2014 Wow it's been over a month now, and people are still replying to this thread? For those of you that are curious let me just say things are starting to progress albeit slowly. Link to comment
SophieGrace Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 My question is why are you settling for someone like this? You deserve to be with someone who is compatible sexually, emotionally and affectionately. These are big things in a relationship. I really hear you when you say you fell for her, but do you really want to be with someone with whom you don't feel happy? People are their actions, not their words, and you can't change people Jmantra - your options are to accept the situation as it is or bravely close a chapter and find what you really want. I so wish you the best - you deserve it! Link to comment
KelliBaker Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 I think she is confused about you , and she do not want to leave you but beside this she also think about her married life. This is the main problem between both of you and if you want a clear answer, Then discuss seriously with her about your relationship. Link to comment
jmantra Posted July 24, 2014 Author Share Posted July 24, 2014 My question is why are you settling for someone like this? You deserve to be with someone who is compatible sexually, emotionally and affectionately. These are big things in a relationship. I really hear you when you say you fell for her, but do you really want to be with someone with whom you don't feel happy? People are their actions, not their words, and you can't change people Jmantra - your options are to accept the situation as it is or bravely close a chapter and find what you really want. I so wish you the best - you deserve it! That's a little easier said then done at this point, she has become more affectionate with me, we have intimate, and she has told me that she has fallen in love with me. At this point I think if I leave her I would hurt both me and her. I think she is confused about you , and she do not want to leave you but beside this she also think about her married life. This is the main problem between both of you and if you want a clear answer, Then discuss seriously with her about your relationship. She told me she wants to file for divorce and move on with her life, the problem is money (she is disabled and on a fixed income) and cooperation from her husband. The main issue is money, and she is trying to save money to get the divorce done. Link to comment
mhowe Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 The issue is not money. Because she is disabled, in all likelihood her husband would pay alimony. And "cooperation" from husband? Is he not aware that she takes lovers on the side? Link to comment
jmantra Posted July 24, 2014 Author Share Posted July 24, 2014 The issue is not money. Because she is disabled, in all likelihood her husband would pay alimony. Not really, the husband can't pay alimony because he can't keep a job due to him being an alcoholic. And "cooperation" from husband? Is he not aware that she takes lovers on the side? No he is aware that she is dating someone, he is also dating someone as well. Link to comment
mhowe Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 What a dysfunctional mess! The divorce isn't going to happen in your lifetime. I suggest you keep looking for a more suitable mate. Link to comment
jmantra Posted August 8, 2014 Author Share Posted August 8, 2014 The divorce isn't going to happen in your lifetime. Wrong, I talked to her tonight, she now has the financial means to file for divorce, and she is going through with it. Link to comment
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