afraid of love?

[revdeluka]

i havent dated ever. i want to start dating but ive not found the lady that im looking for. but there are some willing to go out with me. should i go out with them so that i would know what dating is like so that when i meet that girl im interested in i will know what to do? is this ethical?

[Badbuffyboo]

.As long as the ladies with whom you go out a, are aware that you are not looking for long term commitment, I think it's more than fine to date someone you don't feel romantically involved with.

Have fun

Buffyboo x

[Celadon]

Your subject says "Afraid of love?" So, are you afraid of love? Or just picky? Or are you afraid of being "unprepared" when the right woman comes along?

 

I don't know how old you are, but if you're young -- especially if you're young -- you should date people to find out what kind of person and personality fits yours. Some people think they know what they're looking for -- usually it's the typical gorgeous model type who is "smart, funny and athletic." lol.

 

But I have married friends who say they would NEVER have guessed that they would have married their spouse. And yet, that person is the perfect person for them!

 

Give dating a shot. It's about getting to know people and letting them get to know you. Don't lead anyone on, though -- that would be unethical. Don't get a gf just because you want "experience." Treat dating as an opportunity, and keep an open mind. You may be surprised about what qualities you really like.