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i havent dated ever. i want to start dating but ive not found the lady that im looking for. but there are some willing to go out with me. should i go out with them so that i would know what dating is like so that when i meet that girl im interested in i will know what to do? is this ethical?

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Your subject says "Afraid of love?" So, are you afraid of love? Or just picky? Or are you afraid of being "unprepared" when the right woman comes along?


I don't know how old you are, but if you're young -- especially if you're young -- you should date people to find out what kind of person and personality fits yours. Some people think they know what they're looking for -- usually it's the typical gorgeous model type who is "smart, funny and athletic." lol.


But I have married friends who say they would NEVER have guessed that they would have married their spouse. And yet, that person is the perfect person for them!


Give dating a shot. It's about getting to know people and letting them get to know you. Don't lead anyone on, though -- that would be unethical. Don't get a gf just because you want "experience." Treat dating as an opportunity, and keep an open mind. You may be surprised about what qualities you really like.

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