jenb Posted December 4, 2004 Share Posted December 4, 2004 okay. soooo my boyfriend and i broke up from a pretty serious relationship like 4 moths or so ago and it was a prety bad break up and he's been a jerk lately and i was actually finally gettin over tyrin to even be friends w him when he texts me a bunch of stuff about meeting up just to have sex. now first, i was pissed and upset he would even think of saying this to me. . . then i started thinking. . . he's not attched anymore, im not. . . it's just sex, right? soo i played along still not exaclty sure if i wanted to. but today we met up and.... damn it, we had sex. i dont know how i feel about it. im kinda thinking "what did i just do? i mean, i guess oviously he was only nice and all for the sex. soo, whatevr, we're both jst in it for the sex, ahha. bc we then agreed to a "friends w benefits" type thing. but i still dont know if i messed up or not. bc it was fine, we were cool and fun and even hung out after for a while. he did make a comment when i said "friends w benefits?" and he said "yes, friends... w benefits, but we dont have to JUST benefit." haha i didnt exactly knwo how to take that. did he mean we could just be friends and not just be hangin out for sex? lol.... i dont know. i just keep thinking i messed up and should have just moved on w/o him in my life whatsoever. but then again, maybe this is okay? ahh i just dont know...what do ya'll think? was it a stupid move? maybe im answering my own questions w all these feelings now, but im not sure.im jst confused w it all! sorry this was a long post but please help me out w some input! thanks![/i] Quote Link to comment
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