Bullying By Former Crush Help

[Drizown]

There's this kid Dylan that I used to have a major crush on and he liked me as well but things went bad between us but it got worse. I beat him in something in our civics class together and now he won't stop calling me kankles and making really mean comments. My friend evan told him to stop which he did... for about 2 weeks and now he's back at it. I'm tough, and I'm known for being tough in my school b/c I do martial arts and what not, but I'm very sensitive about name calling, and standing up to it, I need help.

[zab]

bust the boy in his chin, about 5 lbs of pressure and he'll be down and out....na just kidding lol, what you need to do is just tell him hes pathetic and not show him its bothering you because he will most likely stop then as he will notice that whatever he does, its not affecting u (or effecting you i dunno i can never decipher between them lol) anyways, if that doesnt work, make a mockery of him n beat on him lol

 

Zab

[PAdreamer]

Don't "stand up to it" like most people do. You don't need to threaten him or get back at him or even talk to him. Ignore it... CONVINCE yourself that it doesn't bother you, and soon it won't! And you'll be stronger for it.

[Strictly4MyGrind]

childish but i jus make fun out of someone back if they start on me shuts them up

 

and since ure a gurl u hav an advantage over him belvie me

[PAdreamer]

I wouldn't classify it as childish... it just doesn't make you look any better than the person who started it, you know? I always try to choose the path that makes me the better person. People will respect you more for that. Even if you have to endure for a time.

[Strictly4MyGrind]

you dont want to look better then the person that started it you want them to shut up and i mean take fun out of them bak as in jus say something like you must really like me cause you cant shut up about me theyll stop...

[Drizown]

Thanks for the help everyone. I think I'm gunna go with just ignoring it. Especially since none of the things he says are true so I don't know why i let it get to me.

 

Peace